
This is Evelyn Nesbit. She was beautiful, wasn’t she? Last night, while researching something else, I was reminded of her. Back between 1900-1906, she was a media sensation, the first It girl, the first time (that I know of) that America got obsessed with the face of a woman and pushed it to cult-like status. Perhaps we had done that before; perhaps we have always done that. But Evelyn Nesbit was kind of a precursor to Marilyn Monroe, a person who, because she embodied a certain look of a time and a certain specific sexual identity that met with the ideal of the time, was elevated to the emotional and cultural weight of a symbol.
In the above picture, Nesbit is 16 years old. I am not sure how old she is here, but this is one of my favorite pictures of her:

She would be considered beautiful today, but back in 1900 or so, she was the ideal. She had a perfectly oval face, a long straight nose, symmetrical features, and piles of wavy hair. You might think we like the same things today, but actually common protocols suggests that we like features more exaggerated –think Angelina Jolie’s giant lips–and feminine from all angles. From the profile, Nesbit had a rather masculine face:

And could look like Rumor Willis:

In 1902, Nesbit was a well-known model for photographers and artists alike. She was famously depicted in one of Charles Gibsons’ drawings, making her one of the most famous Gibson Girls, and cementing her status as a sex symbol for her day. Here is the drawing that made her name:

She was caught between two men, her lover Stanford White and her husband/abuser (?) Harry Kendall Thaw. She did not seem particularly passionate about either man, although they were passionate about her.
I wanted to tell you more about this, but the Internet is unreliable about details, and I am only now becoming acquainted with Evelyn Nesbit. Therefore, I will have to read a book and get back to you. But what happened in the end was, Thaw shot Stanford White dead over Nesbit. There was a long, elaborate media circus around the incident, during which Nesbit testified in Thaw’s defense (I think), but he went to jail anyway.
I like this part, from Wikipedia:
In his book The Murder of Stanford White, Gerald Langford quoted Thaw as saying “You ruined my life,” or “You ruined my wife,” and the New York Times account the following day stated “Another witness said the word was “wife” instead of “life”" in response to the arresting officer’s report otherwise.
After that, Nesbit became a morphine addict and an alcoholic and tried to kill herself several times. But she didn’t, and lived to age 82. Here she is as an old woman with Joan Collins on the right: